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Old friend.

  The other day we were talking about a few past experiences. A friend and I, spoke about a lot of things and I kind of remembered another friend from my past who I don’t speak to anymore, we fell out over the years.   This goes back to maybe a decade or less, when I was Introduced to this person. A friend of a friend and  just start talking, a very nice person. We exchanged information kinda grew close. Started talking almost everyday after-hours texting each other all day long and crossed paths every other day.   A few days in I could notice she would be jealous of my other friends if I had to tell her about my day or just mention I hung out with them. It was normal because I have had such experiences in the past with a few others and it is human behaviour to an extend. In spite of being close, I would not have categorised her as 'best friend' because we never crossed that fence.   Then you might ask why I mentioned/ Remembered her?   Even though ...

Friday the 13th

  The morning, as I entered work, someone asked, about how my Friday the 13 was going so far, Me being me didn’t realise, it was, and surprisingly it was quite day. It was a very busy, jumpy, and tiring day, Moving on to the evening arrangements, had to meet with almost 30 people back to back having intense conversations, with a bit of a noisy environment, taking a huge chunk of your energy. I was like finally that’s it, cranked my headphones up, and tried resting my voice. And I am walking on a cool night, silently, just people watching as usual. I almost reached the station, drowned in my thoughts, dispatched from the reality, and I see this mobile screen , from the corner , and there is a girl standing in the dark, looking totally distressed. She was looking for directions, as I was going to the same direction, I suggested I would walk her towards her destination. As soon as I said it, a random thought just popped up, it is ‘Friday the 13th’ ,  What if she was feeling the j...

‘The wanna be’

Today a friend and I were talking about a few past incidents. How we have encountered and attracted different kinds of people in our life.  Thats when I mentioned, that there are a few theories and sayings,I subscribe to in my daily life that helps me avoid a few problems, and gauge a person. One of things I believe in, is there are two types of people's behaviour.  1. ‘they are'.  2 ‘the wanna be’ 1- The people 'they are', are the kind of people who live their life, comfortable with themselves and have originality. They do not seak approvals, will try new things and content.  You can make out when you observe they have a naturality to their behaviour. For eg:  The term 'Old Money', we use it when an person in well dressed, because it's his or her nature to dress well, that is how it has always been and it is natural as second skin and the person knows the value of it. When the wealth of commodities and personalities are inherited and imbibed positively. 2. ...